end of sem 1: 2009/2010

jumaat lps...sy dah siap key in sume mak nenek markah..
so end of sem 1 sesi 09/10...overall ini adalah satu
semester yg memenatkan...
sy abiskan marking dlm ms seminggu...coursework+final
exam...resultnya ok2 shj..
bentuk dump bell la jgk walaupom agk skit terpesong kih3...
HEA 07 x isi lg nih..
semlm sy buat housekeeping desktop...fenin sih.seprh jln
jek..tgk la bila2 rjn plak..

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nk msk 2 mgu sy merajuk hahha nmpk sgt hormon x stabil...
kes berantai..kenapa lama sgt..
may b sbb sy penat+keciwa...keciwa kerana x dpt apa yg
sy nk sbb memikirkan keadaan family.
apa pun family 1st...ms blog hopping hobi sekarang blog 
hooping blog2 yg ada anak kecik nk tgk perkembangan anak
diorg sama x ngan imran..bila nk suap solid food bla bla + 
nak naikkan hit nuffnang diorg..x salah bg org rezeki lbh 
skit...nanti adalah balasan untuk kite aminn sy jupe 1 wish
utk pengantin br. 
bla..bla...semoga byk bersabar + byk tolak ansur
now sy phm phrase ni huhu...dlm berumahtgga kte kena
byk bersabar tp pasangan 
pom harus la tau limit kesabaran kte...asyik kte je
 mengalah...mkn dlm woo
byk bertolak ansur..n byk redha-meredhai...sy rasa
sy dah buat yg termampu..
bgn pagi..skrg kul 5.30 or 6 pg dah bgn..iron bj+mandi+solat.
.sediakan bekpes.
sy ttp sediakan bekpes walaupun ianya secangkir air
teh/milo/kopi + roti..
or goreng kuih instant or mknan2 segera yg lain...
mai keje..blk keje..

smpi umh kul 6...main2 ngan imran, mandi+solat...pas tu
start masak utk mkn malam,
by kul 10 dah siap mkn...then zussss en suami akan kuar
melepak ngan member2 dia..
ni yg buat sy kecik ati...kul 10 kalu ari selasa sy akan
jemur2 kain..soknya lipat2 kain..
sorg2...tdo la sy 2 beranak..kul 1 pg br en suami blk...
ntah bg sy ini x bgs..
may b sini adalah metropolitan..budaya kuar mlm adalah
biasa...tp saya x leh terima..
bg saya tempat seorg suami+ayah adalah di rumah meneman
anak isteri pada waktu mlm..

sang isteri turut berkerja..ada masalah jgk kt opis.
nk release tension jgk bila di rumah..
tp bila bila sang suami hanya fikirkan stress di tmpt
kerjanya saja..dan mau mereleasenya
bersama kwn2 di kedai kopi...sang isteri dibiarkan di
rumah sang isteri plak suka berfikir bukan2
apa yg sang suami buat diluar..apa kt rumah x leh dapat
 ketenangan ke tp sang suami x penah nk
fikirkan semua ni. so who to blame...may b sang suami
dah terbiasa dgn budaya ini..dan sang isteri
plak x dapat nk terima..apa dlm hati kte..kalu tgk sang
suami..malam jek sibuk check hp n tgk jam.
tunggu kwn2 roger utk keluar...ntah..sy sgt kecik ati.
.dari kes sentap menyetap saya mau delete 
semua kes sentap menyetap kerana ini semua akan menambahkan
 beban dalam kotak minda saya 
kan jihe ckp hati kitorg cm jeli hehhehe sgt la jeli

saya dah start mogok tp en suami still kuar setiap mlm..dan
lahar pom mendidih jgk akhirnya ..
berlaku drama swasta membaling bantal...nasib baik masa
tu atas sofa ada bantal kecik2..
bleh jgk baling bantal tu...kalu kt dapur harus baling
pinggan mangkuk tp kena pilih pinggan 
clayton atau milame..kalu corelle akak jgk yg menangis x 
berlagu hahaha skrg saya paham perasaan
org yg baling2 barang hahhaha selama ni saya x pernah lagi
baling2 barang atas meja or kt mana2 lah..
hasilnya keesokkannya saya membawa diri ke putra palce...
dah la family jauh...check in hotel je lah..
kalu x dak anak bleh jajah supermarket..
Hari ni saya mau berdamai..sbb lusa dah nak blk kg raya
 x syok pulak balik kg dlm keadaan mogok...
ye ye blk kampung..mesti tok ma x sabar nk jumpa imran

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yeeeahh semlm dah gaji...budget lari skit bln ni...anak
ikan kelisa yg nk sambut anniversary ke 5 bln
dpn...mtk dibelai..baterinya kong..cd playernya kong.
.tayarnya jgk botak..
sy jgk dgn jelogohnya telah membeli perfume + balang kuih ...
bila la umah no satu, jalan tiga, taman temak jaya nk
 dapat kunci...byk projek2 terpaksa ditangguhkan
sbb nak tunggu settle masuk umah..huhhh nyeri bila
memikirkan wang yang bakal dipotong RM 1 200
setiap bulan...berapa lah sgt gaji seorg lecturer
degree+PLV utk tanggung 2 buah umh punye bil..
belanja dapur rumah sendiri + anak dan perbelanjaan lain..
.tapi saya tau setiap anak ada rezekinya
so x usah mengeluh..tp saya tetap meleleh air liur bila
 tgk grill wrough iron rumah mak aliya dlm nur kasih
hahha tapi saya x mampu..kalu boleh x nak buat loan..mau
pakai duit mana yang ada...sekarang dapur sahaja
dah separuh harga enchek samurai...kalu buat wrough iron
 sebuah rumah atas bawah total buat dapur+plaster
ceilling + wiring + wrough iron + etc2 ..bleh beli sebijik
enchek samurai secara cash..mana lagi baik hahaha
tp selepas peristiwa sentap menyetap last week saya rasa 
bersyukur sbb x jadi angkat enchek samurai ..dasar
menantu hantu tull hahah

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lastly susahnya melayari bahtera perkahwinan bersama dia
yang berlainan adat dan budaya..seorg anak mak yang
maknya macam belom mau melepaskan anaknya melaksanakan
tanggungjawab sebagai suami+ayah di zaman moden ni..
means dua-dua suami isteri bekerja..so skrg saya paham
kenapa mak2 yg konservatif mau anaknya kawen dgn org
yang sama negeri..

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Oh Naa..maafkan aku..x dapat nk layan lama2 keluh kesah mu
dlm mencari pasangan hidup...sesungguhnya
keluh kesah dlm alam rumahtangga lg besar...kalu sekarang
 dah x boleh nak manage emosi...macam mana
bila dah kawen n ada anak nanti..mau nya asyik nampak
asap atas kepala 24 jam..org2 sekeliling jgk yang
berbulu mata tgk ..
Oh Tuhan ..tabahkan hati hambamu ini...moga2 syaitan2 yg
asyik menghasut fikiranku lari..semoga aku
boleh sentiasa bersabar dan berlembut hati...semoga
telingaku lebih kebal untuk mendengar kata-kata
mereka yang ingin 'beramas mesra'

Hikayat imran ariq episod 1; 9 bulan 10 hari

baru berkelapangan skit mau menulis…berkelapangan lah sbb mls nk marking kuiikuiikuii

cite psl imran ariq skit….

saya disahkan bersalin sebelum raya haji thn lps (saya sgt fail bab mengingat nk2 ingat no2)…slps abortion..3 bln after abortion kot..kalu x silap sbb kena marah kt cik misi awl sgt peknen hehhehe tp sy x kisah sbb sy mmg nk ank ms 2

awl peknen sy kena alahan yg agk teruk…..loya2 dan muntah2 berterusan smpi ari bersalin..sy mkn supplement yg klinik bg sekali sekala je sbb ubat2 tu antara penyebab sy muntah…sbb ada pengalaman abortion…sy pom cek up kt mahsuri sbb kt situ ada pakar saikit puan…2 weeks jgk sy amk duphaston…lain2 constrain x byk sgt kot…tp msk bln ke 5..berat bdn sy mengalami mslah …sbb x berapa lalu mkn berat sy trn 2 kg…tp bulan berikutnya naik 3 kg..procedure klinik naik melebihi 3 kg adalah x bagus…suspect diabetis..sy penah cite dulu..mls nk cari entry tu..sy minum air gula…1 reading x lps…just x lps 0.5 trs diketogorikan sebagai pengidap diabetis

bila jd pengidap diabetes…2 minggu sekali kena buat BSP (yg amik darah 4x sehari tu)…n kena induce hohoho awl2 lg sy dah tau bila nk bersalin kalu EDD dah smpi tp x sakit2….tp sbb psiko org dok cite skt kena induce…ms mgu ke 38 sy terperasan ada cecair puith kuar…ku ingatan air ketuban …zassss p hospital …x psl2 kena thn ….doc ckp tu keputihan…bila dah akhir2 mmg mcm2 dischage yg kuar…

bila dah dkt EDD + date nk induce ..sy pun p menyerah diri kt wad ..sblm menyerah diri buat last preparation…oh ari2 terakhir peknen adalah membosankan sbb kt sini kena H1N..sy sebagai individu berisiko tinggi sy pun amk cuti awl…ingat nk keje smpi ari jumaat (sy msk wad ari sabtu)….pg sabtu tu buat last preparation bukak bottle susu n steril..beli FM..misi pesan soh bg FM kalu baby kunin…cpt skit ilang kuning..due kpd nasihat ini abis ilang satu keazaman sy..

ni amk jgk..

masa mega potluck...6 bln kot

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9 bln...besau kan peyut sy

 

 

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nk p check up...ms peknen muka sy penuh jerawat...perubahan hormon kot

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brg2 baby....sume brg2 penjagaan diri+kapas+klip kuku+gunting etc..sy sumbat dlm bakul biru..see k'awin betapa bergunanya buku u hehe..1st toy imran..bekas air tu..bekalan dlm bilik..mls nk p dapur mlm2 ahahha

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almari ni beli khas utk imran ..tp 2 atas je baju imran...2 bwh baju ibu...ibu jgk nl conquer

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sebelum bukak nk steril...ingat nk fully bf..last2 azam tggl azam ats sbb teknikal n biological imyan x nk nenen sob3..x pe pelaburan jangka panjang utk adk imyan (nyeri x ayat ni k'awin)

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8 bln kot...with kam @wedding k'izan

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wedding wenn ...6 bln kot ms ni..sume kot ..mls nk recall

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@cameron..ms ni 3 bln kot..nape org peknen suka p cameron..may b nk melpskan saat2 jln berdua kot..lps ni dah bertiga

 

sy mls nk susun pic hehhe

ntkan episod kedua ; pengalaman bersalin saya

grrrrr..

kepala sy pening…rs x puas berhari mgu bersama ankanda tercinta hukhuk

walaupun kepala sy pening..sy still bleh berpk secara waras….x perlu emo2…sume org ada keje…. x perlu sentap2 hahhaha sy sentap ngan org2 yg tertentu tuttttt hanya m*nan** sentap yg tau

grrrr sy ada byk cerita tp x dak ms nk menaip..

sy ada 4 semestral projek harus di tanda….tp pikiran sy berada di keje bkn hakiki sy…tp nk buat cmne keje hakiki hrs didahulukan disamping keje2 lagha…priority lg tgi dr keje hakiki hahhaha

daaa…mari kte memarking

Your 3-month-old’s development

Sy suka bc..nk tgk tally x ngan imyan hehehe

Holding her head steady

During this month, your baby may be able to lift her head while on her back and hold it for several minutes. If sitting with support, she may be able to hold her head steady and erect. When she’s on her stomach, you might see her lifting her head and chest as if she were doing mini-pushups. You can offer encouragement by sitting in front of her and dangling a toy. >>> semlm br buat golekkan pertama tp sy cian tgk dia p pusing blk…lps n ink kena biar tgk dia nk buat apa..

 

Better arm, leg and hand coordination

Your baby can now wave her arms and kick her legs. As her hip and knee joints become more flexible, her kicks are getting stronger. And if you hold her up with her feet on the floor she should push down on her legs now. She can bring both hands together and open her fingers, though she’ll probably use a closed fist to bat at dangling objects. (Of course, swatting at a toy or other object is developmental progress in itself!) Encourage her hand development by holding out a toy to see if she’ll grasp it. >>>> ooohh ni dah 2, 3 mgu dah…asyik dok berkayuh …tgn n kaki..sy br ditegur  oleh akak misi…dah x perlu pakai mitten lg..halang development jari dia…malu ai…nmpk sgt x tau kuikuii..so lps ni kena ajr imyan pegang toys

Sleeping patterns getting more manageable

Starting about now, sleep-deprived parents may get some respite. By three to four months, your child’s sleep patterns start to settle down. Many babies this age can even sleep through the night, though they may still wake up for the occasional feeds. But some children may not sleep through the night (which, for the first year, usually means just six hours at a time), for a good three to six months, so don’t worry if your baby still wants to keep you up at night. >>>> imyan pom dah tdo lama sekarang…sy suka…dah ada ms nk lipat2 bj..nk tgk2 tv hhehehe yg dah manageable skrg waktu mlm…smpi umh kul 6….main2 kejap..kul 7 tdo ..kul 11 or 12 bgn minum susu..kul 3 bgn minum lg …ZzzzzZ..bgn kul 6 minum..kdg2 tdo smula…kdg2 dok terkebil2 ats katil tgk ibu+daddy bersiap…

 

 

Clear recognition of mum and dad

By three months, and probably earlier, your baby will have formed an attachment to you and be familiar with your face. Most likely she will still smile at strangers, especially when they look her straight in the eye and coo or talk to her. But she’s beginning to sort out who’s who in her life and definitely prefers some people to others.
The parietal lobe, the part of the brain that governs hand-eye coordination and allows a person to recognise objects, is developing rapidly now. And the temporal lobe, which assists with hearing, language and smell, has also become more receptive and active. So when your baby hears your voice now, she may look directly at you and start gurgling or trying to talk back. >>>  ye betulll…dah gelak mengekek2 ..dah ckp sorg2 bunyi grrr grr…kalu sembang multiple skit la bunyi nyee

Start reading to her now

Reading to a child, no matter how small, will pay off. It helps your baby develop an ear for the cadence of language — in fact, varying the pitch of your voice, using accents, singing, and vocalising make the aural connection between you and your baby that much more stimulating. But don’t worry if she looks the other way or loses concentration — adjust her stimulation by trying something else, or give her time to rest. Coordinate your interactions with her responses and interest.

There are plenty of good books to read to your baby. Choose board books with large, bright pictures and simple text — or even wordless books with pictures for you to narrate.

But at this point you needn’t be slavish to age guidelines. Books designed for older children with clear, crisp images and bright colours can captivate a baby. Or you can even read poetry originally written for adult ears. What your baby doesn’t understand will nonetheless delight her because of its musicality (you’ll probably be amused as well). >>>ibu bckan cloth book abc hahha bleh buat kuar lg buku utk baby yg beli ngan reader digest…tkt ada yg terkejut ..kecik2 dah bg bc buku…blom apa2 lg buku imyan dah byk hhahaha

Early language development

This is a sensitive time when verbal stimulation is particularly important for your baby. Seize the moment and engage her with a variety of words and sounds. Recent research links higher intelligence levels to how many words a child hears in the first year of life. This is the time to set a sound foundation. Even a trip to the pasar malam can be a chance to stimulate your child — as you walk, point to objects and identify them by name. Your baby can’t repeat these words yet, but she’s storing all the information in her rapidly developing memory.

A baby in a bilingual home will get double the language training if she regularly hears both languages spoken. If you’d like her to learn more than one language, have each parent speak to her in a different language. >>>sy x bwk imyan ke pasar mlm lg…waktu maghrib…tkt nk p cr psl kt sana..just bwk p aneka, giant n tesco…imyan suka dok dlm suka..ibu pom suka sbb ada byk ms nk shopim..tp daddy plak yg masam hahahha

Touch becoming more sensitive

Stimulate your baby’s sense of touch with materials such as fur, tissue, felt and terrycloth, or look for books that make touching a part of the reading experience. Touching, carrying and massaging your baby, along with moving her through the surrounding air when you lift her, are powerful ways to relax her and may even increase her alertness and attention span. >>>> ooo ok…sy akan buat

Beginning to interact with others

Your child is set on “receive,” drawing conclusions about the world around her. By now, she may respond to her face in the mirror by smiling (babies love looking at themselves), and she may stop sucking her thumb or bottle to listen to your voice. By cooing or making noises at her, and by describing even the most mundane household chore, you’re not only connecting with her but also encouraging her to express herself. Even with others, your baby is becoming more animated and engaging — flashing smiles, oohing and cooing. The fun has really begun. When you’re with friends, keep her nearby so she can hear the richness of human interaction. >>> daddy yg suka letak imyan dpn cermin…bgs2 teruskan

Is my baby developing normally?

Remember, each baby is unique and meets social milestones at her own pace. These are simply guidelines to what your baby has the potential to accomplish — if not right now, then shortly.

And if your baby was born prematurely, you’ll probably find that she needs time before she can do the same things as other children her age. Don’t worry. Most doctors assess a premature child’s development from the time she should have been born and evaluate her skills accordingly.

If you have any questions at all about your baby’s development, check with your doctor. >>>ok sume normal…x perlu risau…daaaaaa